Ten Wardrobe Tips to Boost Your Confidence and Self-Esteem Now

Dear friend,

Allow me to be blunt. You need to take care of yourself. No one else will. You can’t care for others if you don’t have any reserve built up for yourself.

I have almost 20 years experience buying and selling clothing. I’ve heard all the excuses in the book. Spring is here. It’s not too late. Turn over a new leaf now.

Here are ten wardrobe tips to build your confidence, boost your self-esteem, and care for yourself.

 

 

1. Add a wardrobe workhorse: the scarf. A scarf adds color, style and warmth. Stop saying you can’t wear scarves. If you can fold laundry and tie a basic knot, you can wear a scarf.

2. Purchase less clothing. But invest in the best quality you can afford.

3. Pare down your closet to items you love to wear. You are not married to your clothing. If you haven’t worn it, get rid of it. If you can’t part with it, store it outside of your closet. Need help? Contact me: reneesclothing (at) yahoo (dot) com. I know a few non-judgmental, detail-oriented people who are organizational wizards.

4. Stop obsessing about weight. Clothing that fits well looks nice and feels good. Don’t buy clothing expecting to fit into it “soon.” You say you need to lose weight first before you update your wardrobe? Give yourself the respect you deserve. Wear clothing that fits well now.

5. Three simple alterations can transform your wardrobe: shorten sleeves, hem, and take in at the waist. Clothes don’t fit most people perfectly right off the rack. Look how many different body shapes there are! If you need a referral for a good, inexpensive seamstress, contact me.

6. Trust your instincts. Stay true to your personal style. Never mind trends. Most of us can’t (and shouldn’t try to) carry off the latest ideas shown in fashion magazines.

7. Don’t wait until you have an event to look for the perfect outfit. When you find clothing that looks good, feels good, and seems like it’s “you,” get it now. Later, when you really need something, you may not be able to find it. Then you may succumb to making a purchase even though it’s not quite right.

8. Open your blinders to new possibilities. If a knowledgeable salesperson makes a suggestion, don’t dismiss it out of hand. I love hearing you say “I would have never tried that on,” as you look on in amazement and wonder at how nice you look.

I would love to help you!

9. Find a knowledgeable salesperson that you can trust for help and recommendations. Make an appointment in advance so we can prepare for you with thought and care.

10. Get some exercise every day. Start small. Walk around the block. Be mindful of how good it feels to be outside and enjoy the beauty of nature. Don’t do it to lose weight. Do it because it feels good.

 Remember: You are worthy. This spring, be nice to yourself. Care for yourself. Tackle one of the wardrobe tips above today. Be amazed at all the possibilities.

Does this post resonate with you? What are your hangups? Share your thoughts with others in the comment block below. I look forward to hearing from you.

With love,

Renee

P.S. Our "coffee" event this Saturday, April 14 is full. We have a waitlist started. Thanks to popular response, we have added another date. Come have coffee with me on Sat., May 26 at 11 a.m. Sign up before we fill up. Bring a friend. I look forward to connecting with you soon.